being

From the second we enter this world, people are telling us what we should be. What we should do.

How we should act, talk, dress, eat.

What we should do to earn money. How we should spend money.

How to treat others. How not to treat others.

What god to believe in. What god is evil.

What good and bad are.

What right and wrong are.

Our lives are shaped by whatever ecosystem we land in when we come crashing into this planet.

And we build an arsenal of tools, armor, and weapons with those things that we then use to guide us and build our own lives.

Because no one EVER asks you along the way…

What do YOU want?

Who are YOU!?

What lights YOU up inside?

It’s really hard to not allow the influence of others answer those questions.

Because no one has ever taught you how to.

Why would they?

Parents encourage their kids to be like them. Follow in their footsteps. Build the same careers. Hold the same values. Like the same sports teams. They even dress them in the same clothes and shoes! Etc.

They’re not interested in what lives beyond the surface of that little spacesuit.

Why would they be? No one was interested in theirs.

And we’re influenced to do what others influence us to do, not influenced by our own internal energy.

So we spend our entire lives trying to master, grow, and succeed at being something thats fabricated by forces outside our own hearts.

Something that’s not authentic and aligned with our own default energy signature.

Our unique core frequency.

We push, fight, and force our way into a skin that’s not ours and vow to change and upgrade and transform to get better and better and better at NOT being ourselves!

But…

Transformation is not about changing yourself.

It’s about BEING yourself.

It’s about peeling away and chopping off all of the layers of shit that’s covering up, YOU!

The goal isn’t to become a new and improved or upgraded version of yourself.

The goal is to just become YOURSELF!

So you can live and learn and experience life from there.

Because that’s not just “good enough”, there is nothing you can do that’s better!

The shit that’s stuck to you throughout your life has become a calcified shell. Call it the seed that’s protected the plant inside of it.

That’s what we want to get out! That’s what our target is!

For you to BE you! To sprout out of that shell, out of that seed!

Then and only then do we focus on growth.

Because growing anything else is a lie that will eventually collapse on itself and create a life filled with unnecessary struggle because it’s not aligned with your natural genius and true purpose.

So let’s get you in an environment where the focus is on you. Your true essence. Your core desires for life.

And it all starts with a simple very powerful, but nearly impossible question to answer with clarity:

WHAT DO YOU WANT!?

Answer that question from the core of your essence and you unlock and release all of the power, all of the magic, all of the beauty, and all of the prosperity in the entire universe.

But…

You cannot answer that question with any kind of clarity until you answer the one before it.

The one question that empowers clarity, from your core.

The one question that’s the very first step in being you.

In letting go of the constant fight that is futile and un-winnable anyway.

Because being you makes everything around you fit. It makes everything work.

There is no more fight.

There is only growth, experience, adventure, and  actively living your life, not fighting to create and maintain a facade, being a person you were never meant to be…

Here’s a real life example of what that question is in my life and what happens when you answer it.

Answer this question yourself and take the next step based on your answer: